Carnegie Dale How To Win Friends

Fimela.com, Jakarta Buku berjudul How to Win Friends and Influence People merupakan karya Dale Carnegie yang cukup fenomenal. Buku ini bercerita tentang bagaimana cara berkomunikasi yang baik agar orang dapat lebih mudah mendapatkan teman dan rasa hormat dari orang lain. Untuk mendapatkan teman yang royal dan tulus, kamu perlu meninggalkan kesan yang bertahan lama terhadap orang lain.

Menurut buku ini, hal tersebut dapat diperoleh dengan cara menghargai orang tersebut. Menyapa dengan nama jauh lebih baik daripada menyapa dengan "hei", atau mungkin menanyakan kabar keluarga mereka. Orang cenderung ingin didengar, menjadi pendengar yang baik terhadap minat, atau mungkin masalah mereka akan membuat kesan anda semakin baik dimata orang tersebut.

Kemudian, jika ingin berdiskusi, bicarakanlah hal-hal yang penting untuk mereka. Sebaiknya kamu tidak melakukan sesuatu yang kamu sendiri tidak ingin menerimanya dari orang lain. Pada intinya, membuat orang merasa lebih baik akan meninggalkan kesan yang bertahan lama.

Buku ini penuh dengan saran-saran yang memotivasi untuk memperbaiki cara kamu berbicara dan bergaul dengan banyak orang di lingkunganmu. Tidak heran jika buku ini memiliki banyak kutipan-kutipan inspiratif yang sayang jika kamu lewatkan.

Untuk itu, berikut Fimela.com telah merangkum 50 kutipan terbaik buku How to Win Friends and Influence People Karya Dale Carnegie yang fenomenal. Dilansir dari beragam sumber, simak semua kutipan terbaiknya di bawah ini.

Kutipan Buku How to Win Friends and Influence People Bagian I

1. "It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

2. "Don't be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

3. "You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

4. "Any fool can criticize, complain, and condemn—and most fools do. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

5. "When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures bristling with prejudice and motivated by pride and vanity."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

6. "Everybody in the world is seeking happiness—and there is one sure way to find it. That is by controlling your thoughts. Happiness doesn't depend on outward conditions. It depends on inner conditions."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

7. "Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

8. "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, 'I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

9. "When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

10. "Personally I am very fond of strawberries and cream, but I have found that for some strange reason, fish prefer worms. So when I went fishing, I didn't think about what I wanted. I thought about what they wanted. I didn't bait the hook with strawberries and cream. Rather, I dangled a worm or grasshopper in front of the fish and said: "Wouldn't you like to have that?"

Why not use the same common sense when fishing for people?"― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

Kutipan Buku How to Win Friends and Influence People Bagian II

11. "A man convinced against his willIs of the same opinion still"― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

12. "You can't win an argument. You can't because if you lose it, you lose it; and if you win it, you lose it."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

13. "Names are the sweetest and most important sound in any language."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

14. "I have come to the conclusion that there is only one way under high heaven to get the best of an argument— and that is to avoid it. Avoid it as you would avoid rattlesnakes and earthquakes."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

15. "If You Want to Gather Honey, Don't Kick Over the Beehive"― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

16. "All men have fears, but the brave put down their fears and go forward, sometimes to death, but always to victory."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

17. "Why talk about what we want? That is childish. Absurd. Of course, you are interested in what you want. You are eternally interested in it. But no one else is. The rest of us are just like you: we are interested in what we want."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

18. "Instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try to figure out why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. "To know all is to forgive all."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

19. "criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person's precious pride, hurt his sense of importace and arouse resentment."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

20. "If some people are so hungry for a feeling of importance that they actually go insane to get it, imagine what miracle you and I can achieve by giving people honest appreciation this side of insanity."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

Kutipan Buku How to Win Friends and Influence People Bagian III

21. "By fighting you never get enough, but by yielding you get more than you expected."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

22. "Once I did bad and that I heard ever. Twice I did good, but that I heard never."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

23. "If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes; but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent's good will."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

24. "Only knowledge that is used sticks in your mind."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

25. "arouse in the other person an eager want. He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot walks a lonely way."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

26. "The chronic kicker, even the most violent critic, will frequently soften and be subdued in the presence of a patient, sympathetic listener— a listener who will be silent while the irate fault-finder dilates like a king cobra and spews the poison out of his system."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

27. "John Wanamaker, founder of the stores that bear his name, once confessed: "I learned thirty years ago that it is foolish to scold. I have enough trouble overcoming my own limitations without fretting over the fact that God has not seen fit to distribute evenly the gift of intelligence."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

28. "Control your temper. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends and Influence People

29. "The world is full of people who are grabbing and self-seeking. So the rare individual who unselfishly tries to serve others has an enormous advantage."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People

30. "People who can put themselves in the place of other people, who can understand the workings of their minds, need never worry about what the future has in store for them."― Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People